With all the focus on butts on this site, I thought it would be downright foolish – rude even! – not to answer this question. We all know that most men love women’s
butts. But do women like men’s butts just as much?
Alright, so I know that the majority of material I post is mostly targeted towards the ladies, but that’s because it is mostly us women who are seeking to get a bootylicious butt!
However, for the guys – did you know that women also can appreciate a good butt on a man?
Women Love Men’s Butts Too!
In general, I wouldn’t say that women love men’s butts as much as men seem to love women’s butts, but as with anything there are a wide variety of preferences out there, and I’m sure there are women out there who absolutely adore the male butt.
From what I have seen and experienced myself, I would have to say yes, women can and do like men’s butts.
Now, I’m not one to objectify a guy, and I don’t often put too much attention on physique – but I have to say that on the odd occasion I have noticed that a guy has a nice butt, I usually can’t stop myself from sneaking glances a good deal of the time.
For me, if a guy has a sub-standard butt, it’s not a big deal, but it can be a bit of a letdown. Nice butt on a guy = definite bonus.
What Women Like About Men’s Butts
Allow me to begin with my Ode to the male butt:
…just kidding guys. Instead of subjecting you to some no-doubt low grade poetry, I’ll just give you a bit of insight into my own experiences with checking out the male physique.
I don’t pretend to understand what makes it so, but if you find a guy with a nice butt, I have observed the following to be true about their butts:
A bit of shape is what I tend to appreciate about a guy’s butt.
For instance, most males seem to have a flat butt with not much shape or definition down there, for example:
Now, the above image giving a sense of not-much-going-on-in-the-buttock-region may well be because of a poor choice of jeans which flatter the butt.
But there are other examples of men with a flat or non-existent butt:
So when I see a guy with a bit more shape and definition in their behind, I can’t help but spend a little time checking them out. Guy’s butts are just awesome to look at when they’re good! Case in point:
In case you’re wondering, yes I did very much enjoy sourcing appropriate pictures for this post. It was a scientific process, but nonetheless quite enjoyable and yes, there was some drooling.
Returning to my thoughts on guy’s butts:
They are also nice to hold.
They are also nice to cradle.
They are also nice to smack (lol) and observe the subsequent reaction. Very entertaining (but for the record I wouldn’t recommend trying this one on someone you don’t know).
It’s Not Just Me Though…
I thought I’d compile some evidence from the internet to try and prove to you once and for all just how important the male butt can be!
Of course, not all women focus much on the male butt, but check out some of the responses below from women who do, from a forum post where women were asked if they liked men’s butts.
Methinks I may have to arrange to see the Captain America movie now. You can view all the comments on Reddit, here.
Clearly, Guys Need to Work on Creating a Better Butt Too..
So guys, get your ass to the gym and start building a better butt NOW! We women want to start reaping some of the benefits too…. In the meantime, for all you women out there who are eager for some eye-candy – check out a little collection I put together of hot butts on guys for your appreciation.
Especially after checking out researching (for science!) all these butts, I am really feeling that it is a definite shame for a guy not to work out his glutes. If you don’t, then the lady in your life is surely missing out.
I have to say that after writing this article and seeing what I’ve been missing out on, I feel like I’ve changed my tune – from being a meh kind of girl, to a butt kind of girl!
FYI Guys – How To Get a Better Butt
For the guys reading this, I hope you are considering working on your butt after reading this.. If you’re new to it, you may be thinking ‘how’?
One good place to start is to check out how to activate your glutes first of all.
You can also brush up on some of the best exercises for building butt muscles at this page of Best Butt Exercises.
There are actually heaps of exercises you can do for building better buns, other than squats, so be sure to take a look!
Finally, if you’re not the exercising type but still have a flat butt, you can combat it with a little help from modern clothing technology. For instance, please refer to this post on butt-padded underwear for men as well as this one on butt lifting underwear for men if you want to start getting some attention from the ladies in the short term!
I’m interested to hear your thoughts on this topic. If you’re a guy, do you work on your butt? (If not, you totally should… please?!)
If you’re a girl, do you like guy’s butts?
Let me know what you think by leaving a comment below!
Ahh yes, ’tis true. A great butt is a great butt, and some men have em too. I must share this with my boyfriend lol 😛
I need to get my bf to start working on his butt too! I think if guys realized how much good attention a nice butt can attract, they’d be more inclined to start glute training seriously.
A few subtle compliments can help (“Have you been working on your butt? It’s looking awesome!”), then with any luck let the male psyche do the rest of the work for you.. lol!
I wanted to ask, we’re those pictures taken with the guys consent or…..?
That’s a good point Serge, I have to admit that I actually don’t know. I sourced the images from the linked sources – but now that you mention it, it does seem like they are a bit ‘paparazzi’-like! If I’m not wrong, I believe anything in the public eye is photographable by law, but as a courtesy to these guys I might go back and crop their faces out of the images when they display on this site. Thanks!
NO BUTT THAY LOOKED
Women like to see men’s buttock. I have shown my nude buttocks to girls and women. They laughed and enjoyed most.
Hahaha, just be sure you’re only showing your nude butt to those who have asked to see it Ashis!! :O!
I have an amazing bottom I think.
Hehe, awesome James, a nice butt on a male is sometimes a rarity 😉
Hi
Guys a nice ass is an asset I didn’t know why girls kept coming to my coffee shop only to realised it was because of my nice eye catching round butt lol
I don’t know how it is, because my girls say what Mark’s ass is, but none of them want him anymore because he’s a ham – I noticed and they tell me that they only liked him at the beginning, because he has a mega big ass and they didn’t see what he was like . For a while, they sometimes laugh at him and sometimes compliment him on his big ass and radiator, but nothing more. I don’t know if I’m attractive or not, I do sports, but when I wear anything, it’s …. Not flat, not high, somehow the outline is clear but it’s not very clear, you can see it but it’s not huge. Everyone says I’m “Sweet” – nice, not two-faced, etc… and only once or twice my BFF complimented me that I have a big ass but a bit smaller than “Mark”, but still nice. What do you think? I don’t know maybe you know
Hi again Predej, one thing to keep in mind is that most women will often look at the ‘whole package’ not just a guy’s butt by itself! This might not be as obvious to guys as I hear some males are more physically attracted to women and therefore things like personality or other factors may not be considered as much.
So perhaps Mark was getting a lot of attention initially because of his butt, but once the girls got to know him that may have made him overall less attractive, especially if he’s not that nice a person…
My lady wasn’t interested in butts before. Then I had to change her mind and all is now well 😀
And balance to the universe was restored! I know I personally didn’t think I liked guys butts that much until I actually saw some good ones.. it’s the old case of not knowing what you’re missing out on I suppose, lol.
I don’t know why, but women like men’s strong butts. A friend said that this is the main thing that attracts her attention in guys
Not gonna lie, there is something about a man’s physical strength and physique that is inherently attractive… I guess it’s could be part of primal instinct that we females can be attracted to a strong/muscular looking guy (butt included).
Well Jolie, Nice post by the way !
I am a guy and I must admit the “Butt” has many uses. When my girl has an argument with me ( i don’t do arguments) , I politely ask her to “Kiss my butt!”.
On the serious side , I have a tight butt ‘cos I walk every day.
Roisin (my partner – pronounced “Row-sheen”) , says that she enjoys doing a squeeze test for quality control purposes only of course…lol.
I think every man knows that girls like to look at a man’s butt , at least the butt won’t try a chat upline ! but the butt might wink .!
Hahaha, thanks for that commentary Celticdragon! I’ll have to use that line next time, “for quality control purposes only”… good one!
Nice post on butts, if you have a tight butt you have the right butt in my book , LOL .
Love your site keep up the great work.
I don’t really want to talk about mens butts to be honest, however on TMZ I saw hilarious footage of a guy wearing tight yoya pants bending over putting groceries in the trunk of a car in a shopping centre car park. The amount of guys (not girls) that starred longingly at his majestic ass thinking it was a females fit buttocks was astounding- and OH MY! their reactions when the guy wearing the pants turned round and exposed himself as a man!! priceless..
yeah a good butt can draw a lot of attention, hopefully from the right crowd ;-P.
I’ve seen that one too Dean, it is pretty funny! Thanks for your comment. I think this is the one you are referring to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wngsO-Z4n7A
I just watched the video, that is too funny. The funniest one was that guy who said why you wearing leggings bro. lol Classic thanks for adding that. 🙂
hahhahhaha yeah thats the one! that guy is funny as..
Of course we ladies love mens butts!! Some sports games provide that kind of eye candy to many of us! That is why men should also exercise and take care of that special part of their body.
Hilda
Haha what an entertaining article to read! And yes I agree. Ladies like men’s butts too 🙂
As a guy I always wanted to ask that question and know what women think, but I never did.. So thank you for answering it..
Great post, great site!
What kind of previleges does a good butt have, turn on a woman ? Or just get attention from girls ?
I can vouch for both Ali, a guy with a great butt is definitely a turn on and these days I can notice a nice butt on a guy from across a crowded room!
In my opinion there are no downsides to having a good butt. If I had it my way, all guys would be doing the appropriate exercises in their workout routines to target their butts. But that’s just me talking, haha 😛
Do girls care about male butt as much as guys care about girls asses ?
Hey Victor, in my opinion maybe not as much (it’s certainly not as common), but females can still definitely appreciate a nice butt on a guy! I’d never say a guy without a great ass was a dealbreaker, but certainly a ‘nice to have’ feature, haha!
hi. please i want to know why my buttock get
bigger like that of women? though i notice it is
because of not ejaculation after masturbation (dry
orgasm). or some time if i just don’t ejaculate for 2
weeks. please what happens to me? by the way, i
am male 31. thnx
Hi Abba,
If you are noticing your butt getting bigger without having done any specific butt exercises it is likely due to storing fat in that area, it’s true that women tend to store fat in their buttocks more than men and this is usually caused by the female hormone estrogen. Storing fat in the butt area can happen in guys too though (not a bad thing!), for example this is what products like Gluteboost butt enhancing pills are marketed to do.
I don’t think it would be due to not ejaculating, if anything that would probably be increasing your testosterone levels. It could just be an age thing, or maybe you are gaining a little weight overall? If you are seriously concerned maybe get your doctor to check it out, sorry I can’t be of more help!
Men have great and cute butts. 🙂
Agree hahah!
I just like them because the sexual part of my brain works almost exactly like a man’s.
Well, there’s always that, haha.. so true! 😛
hi…., sure i am gaining a little weight overall. my butt looks nice and i love it. but my point here is i don’t want it to be shaking when am walking. so please how can i make it firm with no shaking at all? thank you for your help.
Abba, there are men’s butt lifting underwear that may work for your situation! Of course, that’s the short term solution, but for a more long term approach, I think you’d need to focus on increasing muscle (targeted butt exercises that try to engage the glute muscles would be the best!) and trying to lose any excess fat (this would typically be a whole-body effect as you lose fat from all areas). So you might need to assess your current diet and exercise plans to make sure everything is balanced out.
Let me know if you need any more help! A good place to start with the butt exercises is mastering a few simple targeted exercises like Glute bridges, donkey kicks, stair climbing or butt burns (these last two are also very good cardiovascular exercises which will help with overall weight loss) – or pick some that you think you might like from this list of butt exercises~!
hi…..! i am now doing Glute bridges and i hope it’s gonna work for me. like i said, my butt looks nice. but it just get too much attention from both men and women. and i don’t want people to think am gay. and what about eating avocado? will that help in removing all excess fat from the body? thank you.
Hi again Abba! Fantastic to hear, in my experience most people will notice a difference in their butt when they start doing targeted butt exercises for the first time! Hey, don’t be too concerned about other’s opinions; try focusing on what makes you happy. A lot of people would love that kind of attention haha! You could always downplay your butt by wearing looser clothing etc. if you are feeling self-conscious.
Avocado contains heaps of good fats and is a very healthy food in my opinion, but I am not really sure on if it would have an overall effect on your body. Stick to the basics of eating a varied diet of healthy options coupled with exercise and you shouldn’t really go wrong!
thank you so much for your help. i will keep going. and please i have one different question though, it is different topic. i wonder if you can help me with it….?
Actually, i can ejaculate as much as i want everyday if i want. but due to some research in the internet i found that men can have dry orgasm. so whenever i reach point of no return i have two options to
either ejaculate as normal, or to clench my pc
muscle to have non ejaculatory orgasm. though it is
more effective if i let it happen naturally. i.e to stop all stimulation at the point of no teturn or to atleast reduce the pressure and then i have orgasm naturally. becase the prstate or my pc muscle will clench automatically when i reach point of no return. and i believe it does not go back to the bladder because i do not see semen in my urine if i do it in a cup and observe it. and people are even surprise how i gain
weight. and it is very nice to me. sometime i can do it 10 times. so what i just do not know is that, is this how to really have dry orgasm? thank you.
Hey Abba, sorry I have no idea on this topic! You might need to do some research elsewhere on the net. Good luck!
Yay!!!!
I have big strong butts
And my guys friends keep saying that i have big butts ( in the bad way)
But now I’m so glad to know that
Women like it ?
Don’t worry Kevin, shape is great! Keep doing what you are doing!
I think i have a great ass but ive always worn baggy clothes, wgat a mistake i want to flaunt my ass to see the ass women pop out of the woodwork lol!!!!
You should definitely start dressing more appropriately! 😉
YEAH! If you wanna check mine everyday… snap whitebttguy
Hahahah, sorry you gotta earn it!
I have been doing lots of squats in the last 2 years which made my butt rounder and what we say double cheeked up. Not sure if it looks attractive to girls:)
Nice one Jas- Good for you! I would say most likely yes?! haha
I kept getting stares down there and had to look this up. So many theories and speculation on this all over the internet.
PS guys if you want “accidental” grazes on the arse, give the cheeks a clench every now on then to keep them toned.
Great Red! More evidence to show that women do actually appreciate a great butt on a guy!
Might I add that in addition to doing butt clenches, you could also do some targeted butt exercises – I’ve got a whole list of the best butt exercises right here!
I got a nice butt. I been doing glute bridges for 230lbs but i gotta increase weight.Also i been tucking my shirt in pants to see how females react, better than baggy pants. I want it to get bigger and more muscular. I didnt know women loved men butt so much.
Nice, 230lbs! I’m so glad when I hear of guys that do butt exercises properly.. Now if only I could convince my boyfriend to do the same… 😛
I used to be that skinny guy with no butt and weak body
So I started working out and I almost got what I wanted and what I started working out for which is a bigger body specially bigger upper body !
So my butt started to get bigger too lol big round shape
I worried about that since ive noticed many people started staring at it
but now I feel better thank u for this article
I love a good body transformation success story! Thanks for sharing Malik. It’s definitely a good thing to have a nicer butt as a guy. I’m sure you are brightening many women’s days by providing some nice eye-candy with your nicer looking butt, haha 😛 Thank you!
The butts you mention that you rather are more common amongst guys of African-descent. I can attest as I have such a butt. Haha!
Interesting – yes I have noticed that you guys tend to have nice butts!
yeah must say having curvy butt does attract interest from both sexes jolie
Too right Arturo! I take it you are speaking from personal experience? 😉
Women in my work place stare at my butt when i wear my uni form Lol hit the gym guys you will attract alot of girls. Good luck
Great advice Kani – keep spreading the good word to your fellow men please and thank-you!
Having a big butt as a man is great because even if women don’t say it they look at your buttocks but many men say “I do want to have big buttocks but I don’t want to show a lot of hips” and sometimes due to genetics many men have wide hips and the having a big butt they say “I have a woman’s buttocks” but I have asked some women who say “how cool and attractive a guy with a big butt and a little hips looks like”
Great outlook Alex! I think it’s a lot less common for a man to have a good amount of booty, so when we see a guy who has a good butt, it definitely gets noticed!
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@ 1:46 (the gentleman in pink suit)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XD77aMyCv0Q
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Sample 1:
https://i.imgur.com/e1xqFq5.mp4
Sample 2:
https://i.imgur.com/xIcMlEp.mp4
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I’m a man with a very firm butt. I’ve had women comment in public about how good it looks in public. It’s actually quite embarrassing- but also flattering!
Love it Akki – enjoy the attention!
Hi Jolie. Well, I don’t know what to think about this:
Recently, “Mark” appeared. He is a super athletic man, no one even in class has a big ass like him. At first, everyone was crazy about him, even the guys slapped him. she doesn’t like him because he has a globe-like ass but he’s awful and now either everyone is laughing at his ass, sometimes someone compliments me My best friend used to tell me I’m “Cute” – kind, not two-faced etc… . I have such medium buttocks – I do sports, I have an outline regardless of what I would wear, but they are not very expressive, more than normal but not very large. My best friend once told me that Mark has a huge ass and I have a smaller one. I don’t know what to think, because I’ve noticed that more and more people are looking at me from the back like that, but no one compliments, nothing but knowing that People sometimes look at it. Is it better to start practicing them (because I exercise but not eating, but rather the whole body, especially legs) or is that enough for me, and is it good, how would it look from your (girl) perspective?
Hi Predej, thanks for your comment. My first and foremost thought is that you need to get your mind off others’ butts and more onto your own, for your own sanity!
I don’t know if you’ve heard these wise words before: “Comparison is the thief of joy”
In my experience, it can be tricky to not compare your butt to other people, but there’s a healthy way to do it. If you are using other people’s butts as inspiration that can be helpful, but if you focus too much on what they have and slip into unhelpful comparison, it can just end up making you feel rubbish about yourself.
I also want to share that nothing looks more sexy than someone with confidence (despite what their butt looks like). So my advice would be to figure out what YOU would like for your butt, and what YOU think looks attractive to you, and work towards that as best as you can. No one else can tell you what’s attractive (the very definition of what’s attractive is different depending on who you ask anyway). Good luck!